In any relationship there are steps and steps to follow. We meet and date different guys until we find that one that we consider it’s the one appropriate for us, for a serious and long term relationship. Like in any others relation, there comes a time when a couple decides to move together. When men seeking women they don’t think right from the beginning “yes, she’s the one I want forever”, but regarding how well a couple gets along, this step is one that will come eventually.
Moving with your boyfriend or girlfriend is not always an easy decision to make and each person decide this his way. There are couples which think that you can’t really know a person until you didn’t live in the same house with. This way you see how you get along sharing the same place, doing things together, you can see his habits and he can see yours also. There are cases where both were happy to learn how life in two works but there are also couples that broke up because they couldn’t adapt to the other one’s habits. It is very difficult to live with someone who’s usual things you don’t really know in detail. On the other hand, there are the ones that before moving together decide to get to know each other better before taking such a big step. And this, many would say, is a good way of thinking. Moving out from you home is a big step, that once taken is a little big hard to take back. Because you go away from your family and if things don’t work out like you expected to it would be harder for you to come back with “tail between your legs”. When family is involved in things like this is always harder, and the truth is that you can’t take decisions like this by yourself without thinking lately consequences.
When you choose this path you have to stay and think it through as much as you can. There are people that after weeks of dating just move together, but in my opinion this is like you meet a guy by navigating on top dating sites and after three drinks you jump to marriage. This is just not right. This is a decision for the future and this is why you have to think exactly in what point your relationship is, if it is the right moment to make a step like this, because is better to feel safe than sorry.